Stop Seeing Order in Your Chaos
When is it time to see order?
Scientists studying human nature conclude that human beings have an inherent propensity to want to see patterns, it is instinctive. This has even been traced back to ancient Egypt. In an endeavour for seekers of the day to make sense of the bright lights in the sky they started to join the dots and created animal shapes from the lights in the sky which locate specific constellations such as the one we commonly recognise as 'The Great Bear'.
This proved useful because it enabled us all (even thousands of years later) to locate constellations by ease from wherever we are on the globe by instantly identifying the shape.
Unfortunately though, we have used this ability to see order in chaos to delude ourselves in many areas of our own lives. Oftentimes we are living with chaotic conditions such as:-
- wanting more free time AND filling up our calendar;
- enjoying time alone AND deciding to have children;
- wanting to stop being a martyr AND signing up in the latest women's club
...and because of our innate sense of needing order we justify it in our minds.
We smooth over the reality of the confusion, contradiction and schizophrenic tendencies because our mind is happier with order.
Stop justifying what's disturbing you
So many of your outer circumstances may leave you unhappy but one of the main reasons why they are not changing is because you are justifying them. You are feeling pain, feeling out of control and then telling yourself a story as to why it's OK.
Chaos is chaos, don't order it!
Take each situation as it comes up and face the truth, at least you will start the process of change.
Open your eyes to your chaos and stop smoothing it over.... if you want to tackle it all in one, use your home; find out what you really believe as opposed to what you have told yourself you believe. Clean up the chaos in your mind causing your dysfunction behaviour. If your mind is confused your life experiences will be confused.
Your core contains peace not chaos.
All confusion in our lives whatever the specific details of the situation effects everything else so pick just one area such as your home and start a clean up. Don't expect life will get less busy. The amount of information being put into the world in the last 30 years has been more than the last 5000 years... and is expected to double.
You have to be selective about acquiring more information and start taking control over what you are sticking your mind into. Your contradictory behaviour is caused by not taking clear decisions and then supporting your decisions.
A perfect example is deciding to get in shape, choosing a diet that you believe can work and sticking to it. Reading and listening to opinions once you have made your decision causes a constant flux in your behaviour. The amount of information on the increase will challenge the stability of your thoughts even more if you don't take control.
Your home will uncover some shattering revelations about you that you were completely blind to. Truths about your real thoughts which will continue to hinder your ability to successfully change areas of your life; simply because of powerful contradictions. Success, whether it be to procure a cup of coffee or a new home requires every part of you to be on the same page.
The way your home is going to give you phenomenal lightbulb moments in ALL AREAS OF YOUR LIFE is because.... oops sorry, nearly spilled the beans and spoiled it for you. Get Started Today
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