Take another self development course or not?

There are many ways to attract the success you seek

When you identify a problem and you feel you are not getting anywhere consider stop going at it the same way.

Transformation and self-love can come in many forms and perhaps if you are disillusioned with your path you might want to create change another way... at least for a period while you feel stuck or frustrated. Remember your mission always... I want to create happiness, I want to be taken care of more smoothly, I want to have more joy and peace.

Before you next invest in a course, book or cd, ask yourself this honest question:

"Am I truly prepared to do any of the things that the teaching advises consistently... at least for a month!" Reflect on the last thing you invested in, did you actually do anything that justified the time and money you spent???... and I don't mean all the times you talked about it or recommended it to your friend; I mean actually put it into action for it to bear fruit?

Listen to the truth within, you KNOW the answer. If the answer is truthfully, "No... I'm lazy... I always mean to but don't really do anything and feel frustrated with myself... my schedule is already busy", then consider the following solution to attract to you the happiness that is missing in your relationship, bank account, health, career etc.

Use the money to create success and happiness in another person's life

Everything we do on the outside is an expression of our inner dynamic and to be frank, regardless of how long you have been reading and requiring more information, you do already have enough information to know how to create a change.

I am not saying you stop learning, that would be foolish advice. I am saying that there are many roads leading to Rome and when we get stuck or feel we are not making headway we lose sight of what we are actually wanting to achieve. We simply need to prove what is important to us and become it; if you want more happiness then create it another way.

At the end of the day it is 'feeling bad' that is the motivation for seeking solutions so the mission is 'to feel good'. How we do that can come in many forms. We are living in an information age and in the last 30 years the amount of information being made available to us is more than the last 5000 years and is expected to double.

With the introduction of the internet we are looking and listening to everything and everybody so much that we are forgetting how to use our brain to reason things out in a common sense way. In truth we are losing the habit of thinking for ourselves and we are swallowing everybody's idea of what works simply because it worked for them.

You can attract more happiness by providing more happiness... this is the simple truth of how life works.

Use your money and/or your time to either go help someone or commit your money to an aid organisation where you know a person's life is going to REALLY be changed or even SAVED because of your love. (I can highly recommend
Hand of Hope as a fabulous use of your money). This way you will feel good and good feelings bring on good situations.

Condemnation kills

If you have been filling your life with self development, self improvement and generally looking for more success I bet that you often get frustrated with yourself when you don't follow up on what you are asked to do. This self condemnation is not helping you, you are already feeling bad and now actually spending money to feel even worse (if you honestly know you won't make any changes).

Be honest with yourself and stop throwing money at your situation over and over when you are not doing anything to change. If you plan to get in shape and can't even stop putting the cakes in the shopping basket then stop fooling yourself, selling yourself excuses and wasting time and energy both for you and the people around you listening to you (it's boring).

Make a change that WILL create transformation!

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