How do you recognise YOUR WINNING FORMULA? Every person has one and it is unique… question is, do you know it or do you keep missing your mark? You are unique and regardless of how much information you are taking in, most of it could be irrelevant… hence a busier world full of unhappy, frustrated, sick people.

How do you recognise your Winning Formula?

Look back to all the defining times in your life when life went well and establish very clearly, the key ingredients necessary. Here are some key questions which will help you get clear:-

• Did you have a clear plan, or did you follow your intuition?
• Did you need a supportive ear or did you completely act alone?
• Are you only active when other people are on board, or the opposite?
• Do you observe that if you are passionate it goes well and when not it doesn’t?
• Does it flow better when you think about the effect of money or when you don’t?

These questions get you started but I encourage to think further back if you can to younger years which give you more ‘pure’ line to your formula for success?

You can follow other people’s suggestions as much as you like but only when you understand your own winning formula will you flourish the way you want. If you have a business then this is particularly important!

My example to illustrate this further and prompt your own values.

When I do only what I am good at things flow, when I get involved in things I am not good at, I work hard and get nowhere. I love my own company and seek peace because that is where I hear the wisdom that comes to me… so I know I cannot have a business fully booked with events, meetings etc.

I know that when I communicate through the written word I feel more in control of the message, the tone and get a chance to review whether I included all the information I want to convey… and as ‘how we feel’ is what is in the process of ‘becoming’, I honour that trait. It is quicker to call but again my point is not how active we are but how EFFECTIVE we are!

I know that I am very astute in the ‘non-physical’ aspects of life (thoughts, feelings, hidden observations) but need help with the physical. My partner is the opposite. So when we have a project when we are both on the ‘same page’ it is highly successful. Any other way, it is a waste of time. He needs recognition and self-esteem (which I give) and I need a ‘push’ which I get from him.

I have never followed a written down plan in my life so I don’t write them anymore.  I know that if I am interested I will complete it and if not it is just a waste of time (even though my conscious reminds me it is a ‘great idea, a great method, a great opportunity’…. if there is no evidence of me ever doing this, it’s because it is not my winning formula.

My greatest success is my relationship with my husband. The formula was “I want him” and I kept going until I got what I wanted! Really that simple. If I had read my books again I would have made it happen sooner

I don’t force myself to remember things because I only remember what I am interested in.

My intuition has proven always to be the right way for me. I knew the moment I saw my husband that I would marry him (without knowing anything about him)… 12 years (and after and after being together 24/7 almost), I still have butterflies when I hear his voice! I do my best not to question my intuition anymore, when I act on it things work out well.

I don’t like being around negative, limiting, critical, angry people so no matter how great an offer might come along in business or a social invitation, if they have these traits in a strong way I would never want to be around them. My partner knows that as soon as he ever raises his voice I either walk away or close my ears. I function in calm, loving vibrations, anything else will cause havoc in my life in every respect and it is up to me to defend those experiences!

I am not sociable. I love my own company. I didn’t decide it that way, that’s the way God made me. So I don’t accept invitations just to make people happy because ‘like attracts like’ so if I am putting myself in a situation that I am uncomfortable then it stands to reason that whether anyone is aware of it or not, the other people involved will also be ‘uncomfortable in some way.

When I imagine something I want to achieve my mind usually thinks of fewer moves to create the biggest impact. In fact when I think about the incredible information in my books sometimes I actually weap at the phenomenal impact they can have if everyone reads them…

and so why are they not so widely known…

because I don’t regularly act on the ‘real instincts within me’… I settle for ‘less courageous’ ventures which of course despite all the effort I put in, return little. As I recommended to you, I reflect back to my childhood and have been informed by my parents that I did actually ‘run before I could walk’… another clue!!!

The reason why we fail to be fruitful in what we are hoping for is because we keep pursuing things we have no natural inclination towards in our unique personalities.

Action is not everything, knowing thyself and courageously sticking to what feels right is key. If you look at your life despite all the outward changes, you will see some patterns and interest that are common… pursue them.. forget the rest.

Unsubscribe from all the things you are not really interested in. Stop fooling yourself. The amount of information finding its way into the public domain over the last 30 years is equivalent to that of the last 5,000 years… and it is expected to double in the future.

We must all learn to filter out and focus on the things we will actually pursue and are important to us. For example, once you find a diet you believe will work healthily and you can do it, do not read or listen to anything else on diets… you will fail!

STOP. Sit down, reflect on life, note all the successful times you remember and what the core ingredients were. This is your winning formula, stop considering other ways but COMMIT to what you know to be your way and be courageous, just because you recognise the truth doesn’t mean everything is going to fall into place.

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How many times do you hear your true authentic voice shouting from the depths of your toes about something you really want. You know that voice of truth. You know you are person who likes being in shape, or likes quiet times alone, or likes going out with friends or likes having money enough to buy what you want.

You don’t change your behaviour because something in you doesn’t allow you the freedom to do it. Let’s not go into the reasons why, there are hundreds of these subconscious reasons and they all feel justified right?

However there are two reasons why we don’t make the change (the story/excuse we use is just the cover):

1. We are not prepared to make the effort because it costs us more than we are prepared to give right now (usually because we cannot feel the benefit of the result because we haven’t been there or have forgotten);

2. We don’t believe that our change in behaviour will bring on the personal transformation we hope for.

The key though is to focus on setting and completing smaller tasks to stop you feeling out of control. Set a task and find out WHY you are not doing it. The reason why you are not acting is the reason why all the other successful changes won’t happen.

Life is a journey full of 24 hour days, if we set and complete tasks each day we will end up where we want but we give up because we keep getting distracted because we won’t set and complete small necessary tasks.

Pick a task and get it done no matter what… and then when it is done, pat yourself on the back and set another task.

Decision means getting out of hell

Decide I want this to happen or not and then give it your total focus until it is done but quit the schizophrenic habits, they just wear you out.

You will only experience happiness when you meet your true needs and if struggling financially or being out of shape is hurting you it means you want to have enough money and you want to burn the excess fat. Don’t fool yourself it is going to change by itself, you caused it and therefore you have the power to turn it around.

Pick one way that YOU BELIEVE will work and block out everything else until it is done. Do not open any more emails about diets or financial freedom if you know something will work.

Focus means blocking out distractions. Distractions will come at you from every corner so don’t buy them otherwise you go around the mountain again… and all that tiredness you feel, that’s simply your resistance. The real you is saying Go and the fraudulent you is saying Stop. So decide, do or do not and then support your decision.

The simple answer is how does it feel. Does it feel right?

It is fair to say that we have had little training in how to live in alignment with our authentic, core self. For the most part we have been raised by people telling us who to be, when and how. It’s not that our parents, friends, teachers, work colleagues mean to harm us or set out to control us but we all generally want the world to conform to how we would like it to be.

The reason why we want this is so we can feel peaceful. We want to take out the irritation, the conflict the disharmony but unfortunately we look in the wrong place we need to look within because that is where the emotion is and it is the emotion that is causing the unhappiness.

The great news is that we all know when we feel right and when we feel wrong, thank God it comes naturally even if we don’t either listen to the feelings or fight to honour and defend them.

Looking at the picture below, regardless of opinion of whether this relationship is appropriate or not, it is pretty obvious that to these guys it is right!

Live life on your own terms, listen to your core self

The irony is that if these cuddly animals were our friends we might not be so quick to go “ahh, they look so happy together!”

What you want to attract you must give, life is an illusion

If you want to be that natural intuitive core you and feel right as much as possible, you must extend this freedom to others… and why would you want to do this, simply because it is your fundamental way to live a victorious life and have your finances, relationships, health and career flow successfully and with the most ease.

If you want to know how much you disallow yourself the right to be free and live successfully, simply make a conscious decision to observe how you go about your day and how much you are criticising people either verbally or in your mind.

Likewise think about how many fabulous acts of a great attitude or things you saw that you liked, that you actually complimented either inwardly or out aloud.

I’m not going to pretend that this is the first time you have heard this but have you actually done the exercise. How truly self-aware are you regardless of how many self-help or self-development books or courses you have invested in.

I think the reason why reality television has become so popular is because it is an opportunity for people to watch and criticise. It is a means of people relinquishing all these feelings of being  ’out of control’ and by criticising others they instantly feel a sense of ‘gaining control’ over the outer world. Ultimately though it actually has the opposite effect, it is even more destructive and repels prosperity, peace and happiness.

If you want to make the world a better place, pursue your own desires and respect and help others to do the same and make every effort to make that happen. Jesus said in John 10:10 “I came that you might have and enjoy life to the full, in abundance until it overflows” and he also said “Love everyone just as I have loved you“…

…that means you don’t have to face off with the guy at the traffic lights. If you can see he is desperate to be first let him win! Ask your self whether you need to be first to feel powerful or would you rather pull off at the lights in your own time and in your own way??

On the other side if you feel you need to feel in control why don’t you just decide to let him win! It’s easier than you think and you might be amazed at how good you feel! The Bible clearly states that God said “Whatsoever you do unto others, you do unto me.” God wrote down his Word to show us how to live successfully and receive divine abundance and showed us that how you treat others is how you treat your self. If you feel a sense of low self-esteem, go about boosting other peoples.

Walk the pathness of kindness and not condemnation as a certain way to love your self!

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Making the transition from the unsuccessful you to the you that lives life on your own terms and experiences joy happens one moment at a time. There’s no quick fix.

Each day that comes along is full of moments improving the quality or deteriorating the quality of your mind and ultimately your daily experience.

So today is Saturday, how can I be in the process of shedding the fraudulent me and be claiming (by the law of attraction) more of my divine inheritance?

Let’s take, for example, the 11am moment and watch whether an acceleration or or a break-down ensues inside of me.

A cup of coffee and a chance to exercise my personal power

My partner asks me for another cup of coffee. Immediately he asks me I feel and hear the reaction inside of me.  Usually I don’t mind but this time I feel pressured. I can immediately hear the voice of the real me inside saying “Get it yourself this time, I don’t feel like it!“.

The fact is that I have a right to say no and I can communicate lovingly… but I don’t.

In order to operate at full power anything must be focused only one way; manifestation requires a ‘certainty’.  Using a car as an analogy, you can make a car go incredibly fast or stop it dead by taking a firm decision to either press the accelerator or the break. Pressing them both at the same time gets you nowhere fast and will wear the mechanics down.

The same is the decision to either follow that real voice inside or not. Even if you give way to your fraudulent alter ego, you would still win more if you could actually be certain and not waiver.

So back to the coffee and its significance in effecting how my behaviour, my mind and therefore my dreams waiver.

I make the coffee BUT I am irritated and angry. The real me is saying no and the fraudulent me has said Yes. This will get me nowhere fast and exhaust me just like the car.

Sure, I can tell myself all kinds of stories to justify why I made the coffee but THE TRUTH is that the anger that I feel inside is the evidence of a fight; an argument. Whilst it may appear on the surface that I took a DECISION, made a CERTAIN move, in reality I did not.

Being wrong gets you closer to your goals and your prosperity than being doubtful

Don’t be in two minds about what you are doing, feel certain. As the Bible says “Be hot or cold, not luke warm“.

My action was riddled with contradiction and confusion, there was no certainty and therefore no focused direction.

This is one of the most important reasons why our lives contradict our dreams and are full of confusion in our relationships, our finances, our health and our careers. Even if we actually gave way to the fraudulent persona within us and ignored our true voice completely, we would prosper our lives much more than we do if we would at least support whichever voice FULLY; how we recognise certainty is the absence of anger, irritation, insecurity and any emotion that has us feeling bad about what we do.

However, if we listened and honoured the true voice we can amaze ourselves with how much life will allow us to have what we want.

Turning this situation to my advantage

So how could I have listened to my authentic voice, not made the coffee and stayed in my divine parameters?

I could have communicated calmly, lovingly and confidently that on this occasion I preferred not to make the coffee and suggest to my partner that he get it himself this time. Furthermore, stayed true to my feelings even if he responded in a bad mood. If I allow him to ‘move me from my peace’ then the real me lost… again!

Anger is evidence of conflict, success though requires a certainty

When you hear the voice of truth within, honour it by acting on it. If you don’t use your courage to act on the behaviour which honours your needs and desires then at least own the decision but feeling angry, irritated or feeling out of control is almost a demolition of your time and energy; it doesn’t add to life, yours or anyone else’s.

Remove the contradictions in your subconscious mind and home your wealth

Help yourself clear up the contradictions between who you perceive yourself to be and who you really are by taking a closer look into the subconscious aspects of your home, office and personal spaces. Have your eyes opened in a way that amazes you and has you breaking free from blocks in your relationships, finances, career and health which you didn’t even know existed. Make simple changes and heal the sabotage within.