There is only one way to success, your way

How do you recognise YOUR WINNING FORMULA? Every person has one and it is unique… question is, do you know it or do you keep missing your mark? You are unique and regardless of how much information you are taking in, most of it could be irrelevant… hence a busier world full of unhappy, frustrated, sick people.

How do you recognise your Winning Formula?

Look back to all the defining times in your life when life went well and establish very clearly, the key ingredients necessary. Here are some key questions which will help you get clear:-

• Did you have a clear plan, or did you follow your intuition?
• Did you need a supportive ear or did you completely act alone?
• Are you only active when other people are on board, or the opposite?
• Do you observe that if you are passionate it goes well and when not it doesn’t?
• Does it flow better when you think about the effect of money or when you don’t?

These questions get you started but I encourage to think further back if you can to younger years which give you more ‘pure’ line to your formula for success?

You can follow other people’s suggestions as much as you like but only when you understand your own winning formula will you flourish the way you want. If you have a business then this is particularly important!

My example to illustrate this further and prompt your own values.

When I do only what I am good at things flow, when I get involved in things I am not good at, I work hard and get nowhere. I love my own company and seek peace because that is where I hear the wisdom that comes to me… so I know I cannot have a business fully booked with events, meetings etc.

I know that when I communicate through the written word I feel more in control of the message, the tone and get a chance to review whether I included all the information I want to convey… and as ‘how we feel’ is what is in the process of ‘becoming’, I honour that trait. It is quicker to call but again my point is not how active we are but how EFFECTIVE we are!

I know that I am very astute in the ‘non-physical’ aspects of life (thoughts, feelings, hidden observations) but need help with the physical. My partner is the opposite. So when we have a project when we are both on the ‘same page’ it is highly successful. Any other way, it is a waste of time. He needs recognition and self-esteem (which I give) and I need a ‘push’ which I get from him.

I have never followed a written down plan in my life so I don’t write them anymore.  I know that if I am interested I will complete it and if not it is just a waste of time (even though my conscious reminds me it is a ‘great idea, a great method, a great opportunity’…. if there is no evidence of me ever doing this, it’s because it is not my winning formula.

My greatest success is my relationship with my husband. The formula was “I want him” and I kept going until I got what I wanted! Really that simple. If I had read my books again I would have made it happen sooner

I don’t force myself to remember things because I only remember what I am interested in.

My intuition has proven always to be the right way for me. I knew the moment I saw my husband that I would marry him (without knowing anything about him)… 12 years (and after and after being together 24/7 almost), I still have butterflies when I hear his voice! I do my best not to question my intuition anymore, when I act on it things work out well.

I don’t like being around negative, limiting, critical, angry people so no matter how great an offer might come along in business or a social invitation, if they have these traits in a strong way I would never want to be around them. My partner knows that as soon as he ever raises his voice I either walk away or close my ears. I function in calm, loving vibrations, anything else will cause havoc in my life in every respect and it is up to me to defend those experiences!

I am not sociable. I love my own company. I didn’t decide it that way, that’s the way God made me. So I don’t accept invitations just to make people happy because ‘like attracts like’ so if I am putting myself in a situation that I am uncomfortable then it stands to reason that whether anyone is aware of it or not, the other people involved will also be ‘uncomfortable in some way.

When I imagine something I want to achieve my mind usually thinks of fewer moves to create the biggest impact. In fact when I think about the incredible information in my books sometimes I actually weap at the phenomenal impact they can have if everyone reads them…

and so why are they not so widely known…

because I don’t regularly act on the ‘real instincts within me’… I settle for ‘less courageous’ ventures which of course despite all the effort I put in, return little. As I recommended to you, I reflect back to my childhood and have been informed by my parents that I did actually ‘run before I could walk’… another clue!!!

The reason why we fail to be fruitful in what we are hoping for is because we keep pursuing things we have no natural inclination towards in our unique personalities.

Action is not everything, knowing thyself and courageously sticking to what feels right is key. If you look at your life despite all the outward changes, you will see some patterns and interest that are common… pursue them.. forget the rest.

Unsubscribe from all the things you are not really interested in. Stop fooling yourself. The amount of information finding its way into the public domain over the last 30 years is equivalent to that of the last 5,000 years… and it is expected to double in the future.

We must all learn to filter out and focus on the things we will actually pursue and are important to us. For example, once you find a diet you believe will work healthily and you can do it, do not read or listen to anything else on diets… you will fail!

STOP. Sit down, reflect on life, note all the successful times you remember and what the core ingredients were. This is your winning formula, stop considering other ways but COMMIT to what you know to be your way and be courageous, just because you recognise the truth doesn’t mean everything is going to fall into place.

Remember, your prosperity lies in the design of your authentic self, you were designed by God on purpose.. and ‘He approved’! Claim your prosperity. If you want to uncover more hidden blocks staring you in the face, download a copy of my ebook Home Your Wealth or Power Surge (or be smarter and get both!) and get rid of all the chaos in your life which is wearing you down and getting you nowhere fast – CLICK HERE.