How do you know if your behaviour is right?

The simple answer is how does it feel. Does it feel right?

It is fair to say that we have had little training in how to live in alignment with our authentic, core self. For the most part we have been raised by people telling us who to be, when and how. It’s not that our parents, friends, teachers, work colleagues mean to harm us or set out to control us but we all generally want the world to conform to how we would like it to be.

The reason why we want this is so we can feel peaceful. We want to take out the irritation, the conflict the disharmony but unfortunately we look in the wrong place we need to look within because that is where the emotion is and it is the emotion that is causing the unhappiness.

The great news is that we all know when we feel right and when we feel wrong, thank God it comes naturally even if we don’t either listen to the feelings or fight to honour and defend them.

Looking at the picture below, regardless of opinion of whether this relationship is appropriate or not, it is pretty obvious that to these guys it is right!

Live life on your own terms, listen to your core self

The irony is that if these cuddly animals were our friends we might not be so quick to go “ahh, they look so happy together!”

What you want to attract you must give, life is an illusion

If you want to be that natural intuitive core you and feel right as much as possible, you must extend this freedom to others… and why would you want to do this, simply because it is your fundamental way to live a victorious life and have your finances, relationships, health and career flow successfully and with the most ease.

If you want to know how much you disallow yourself the right to be free and live successfully, simply make a conscious decision to observe how you go about your day and how much you are criticising people either verbally or in your mind.

Likewise think about how many fabulous acts of a great attitude or things you saw that you liked, that you actually complimented either inwardly or out aloud.

I’m not going to pretend that this is the first time you have heard this but have you actually done the exercise. How truly self-aware are you regardless of how many self-help or self-development books or courses you have invested in.

I think the reason why reality television has become so popular is because it is an opportunity for people to watch and criticise. It is a means of people relinquishing all these feelings of being  ’out of control’ and by criticising others they instantly feel a sense of ‘gaining control’ over the outer world. Ultimately though it actually has the opposite effect, it is even more destructive and repels prosperity, peace and happiness.

If you want to make the world a better place, pursue your own desires and respect and help others to do the same and make every effort to make that happen. Jesus said in John 10:10 “I came that you might have and enjoy life to the full, in abundance until it overflows” and he also said “Love everyone just as I have loved you“…

…that means you don’t have to face off with the guy at the traffic lights. If you can see he is desperate to be first let him win! Ask your self whether you need to be first to feel powerful or would you rather pull off at the lights in your own time and in your own way??

On the other side if you feel you need to feel in control why don’t you just decide to let him win! It’s easier than you think and you might be amazed at how good you feel! The Bible clearly states that God said “Whatsoever you do unto others, you do unto me.” God wrote down his Word to show us how to live successfully and receive divine abundance and showed us that how you treat others is how you treat your self. If you feel a sense of low self-esteem, go about boosting other peoples.

Walk the pathness of kindness and not condemnation as a certain way to love your self!

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